Lending money yourself

"Treat loans to adult children as you would loans to any other person," Martha Nichols says, speaking from the experience of not having loans to her children repaid. "Have it all signed and sealed. Include a copy with your will at your solicitors."

Guaranteeing loans

You may be asked to act as guarantor for a family member who wants a loan. As guarantor, you'll have to repay the loan yourself if the other borrower can't.

Mike Andahl thought being a guarantor was "just a formality" and was something "people do all the time". Andrea, who'd asked for his help, promised she'd refinance the loan after three months, so his guarantee would only be needed for that period. Mike didn't seek legal advice.

When she didn't refinance the loan, Mike felt very vulnerable. His home had become security for a debt of $25,000, including interest and charges, which he couldn't repay. Mike says he didn't understand what he was getting into.

Think very carefully before acting as guarantor, and talk to an independent lawyer. Make sure you see and understand all the details of the loan. Don't use your home - or anything else that you aren't prepared to lose - as security. And insist on the borrower getting budgeting advice about their ability to handle the loan responsibly.

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